A few days ago, I posted a blog about asking whatever questions you wanted to ask. I am going to answer them one at a time. I am going to answer each and every one of them, but not all at once. Here it goes...
Question: "Why do you let your life be only about your kids?"
Answer: Some of you are going to be offended by this, so hold on to your drawers. When I had kids, I did not do it to be a part-time parent. Even when it was just Gage at home, I went out a total of three times. Since having Gage, I have been out a total of four times. Would I like to have more opportunities to go out and let my hair down? Sure. Who is going to stay with them all while I am out? Who is going to get up with them all night long? Who is going to take care of them the next day? Feed them? Change them? Play with them?
It would be me with a hangover or drunk. It would be me, all crabby and tired? Would they deserve to be snapped at? No. They are babies. Kids. Innocents. They did not choose for their mom to go out and have a crazy night. They should not be punished for it. I am an adult and I know better.
I am a Parent and my kids will always come first.
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